2 Oklahoma students expelled over racial chant; house mom filmed singing n-word

Posted at 5:48 PM, Mar 10, 2015
and last updated 2015-03-10 20:56:53-04

NORMAN, Okla. — Two University of Oklahoma students were expelled Tuesday over their alleged “leadership role” in a racist chant by Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity members, a decision that President David Boren says speaks to his school’s “zero tolerance” policy for such “threatening racist behavior.”

The decision comes two days after a video of frat members singing a racist song surfaced, and hours after Boren told CNN he would suspend or expel the group’s ringleaders if at all possible.

Already, the Greek letters sigma, alpha and epsilon have been removed from the frat house’s facade, the house will be closed as of midnight Tuesday and the university will board up the windows, following up on separate decisions by the university and the SAE national headquarters to shutter the Oklahoma chapter, Boren told CNN.

But Boren seemed to say that individual punishments could be a bit trickier.

“Well, legally, our concern is we have to demonstrate exactly how the educational experience of our students was threatened or disrupted by their actions,” he said, “and it really has to focus on the students on the bus. Did the other students have their educational experience disrupted?”

One of the students expelled has been identified as Parker Rice and he has issued an apology, The Dallas Morning News reported.

“I am deeply sorry for what I did Saturday night. It was wrong and reckless. I made a horrible mistake by joining into the singing and encouraging others to do the same,” Parker Rice said in a statement printed by the newspaper. “For me, this is a devastating lesson and I am seeking guidance on how I can learn from this and make sure it never happens again. My goal for the long-term is to be a man who has the heart and the courage to reject racism wherever I see or experience it in the future.”

A friend of his said the video does not represent Rice’s “core personality.”

“Unfortunately though, as things are, that might define him for a while. But it does not define him personally, I feel,” said Matthew Lopez. “Parker Rice is a charismatic, good person, with a good soul and a good spirit that I feel, truly did not believe in or did not truly understand what he was saying.”

The video and its fallout

It was only a nine-second clip, but the backlash has been disastrous.

Party-bound students are seen on a bus clapping, pumping their fists and laughing as they chant, “There will never be a ni**** SAE. You can hang him from a tree, but he can never sign with me. There will never be a ni**** SAE.”

After the campus organization, Unheard, and the school newspaper received the clip via anonymous messages and publicized it, the university and the fraternity’s national chapter acted swiftly to shutter the SAE house in Norman. Boren promised the university’s affiliation with the fraternity was done.

“I was not only shocked and disappointed but disgusted by the outright display of racism displayed in the video,” said Brad Cohen, the fraternity’s national president. “SAE is a diverse organization, and we have zero tolerance for racism or any bad behavior.”

Still, it could get worse. Oklahoma may not be the only source of embarrassment for the fraternity.

“Several other incidents with chapters or members have been brought to the attention of the headquarters staff and leaders, and each of those instances will be investigated for further action,” SAE said.

Title VI

It’s likely that if the university hadn’t acted, the Department of Justice’s Civil Rights Division could have stepped in, said Barbara Arnwine, president and executive director of the Lawyers’ Committee for Civil Rights Under Law.

Title VI of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 “prohibits discrimination on the basis of race, color, and national origin in programs and activities receiving federal financial assistance,” according to the Justice Department.

In this case, Arnwine said, the university likely found that fraternity members appear not only to have discriminated in their membership — and backed that discrimination with the threat of lynching — but they’ve also created a hostile environment.

The university, she said, “would’ve been compelled to do something to sanction and prevent this fraternity from engaging in racial discrimination.”

Arnwine said she wasn’t personally familiar with the school’s code of conduct, but she’d be surprised if the fraternity members’ actions weren’t in violation of university rules as well.

All of these reasons are grounds to sanction the fraternity and expel specific members who were involved in the singing, she said.

“A very important part of the lexicon of civil rights law is that you cannot create a hostile environment where you make it so people of different races or religions or women feel they can’t function at your institution without being subjected to unlawful discrimination,” she said.

The fallout

It’s unclear whether more students will be punished for the video, though Boren has promised the SAEs won’t return during his tenure if he can help it.

“The house will be closed, and as far as I’m concerned, they won’t be back,” he said at a Monday news conference.

He later told CNN, “There seems to be a culture in some of these fraternities, and it just has to be snuffed out.”

The decision to shutter the fraternity was an easy one for Boren, he said.

“If we’re ever going to snuff this out in the whole country, let alone on college campuses, we’re going to have to have zero tolerance, and we have to act right away,” said Boren, a former Oklahoma governor and U.S. senator. “This is not a place that wants racists or bigots on our campus or will tolerate it, so I think you have to send a very strong signal.”

Hundreds of students have protested the fraternity’s actions. Some of them arrived Monday morning on the campus’ North Oval with tape over their mouths, while the Oklahoma football team and Coach Bob Stoops marched arm in arm across campus instead of practicing.

The video infuriated Oklahoma linebacker Eric Striker, who posted a profanity-laced video to social media.

“I was angry and I was outraged,” Striker said. “I apologize for the profanity, but I’m not apologizing about how I felt, because that’s how I felt in my heart.”

The fallout from the video also cost the football team a top recruit as offensive lineman Jean Delance said Monday he was de-committing from the Sooners and considering other teams.

‘That needed to happen’

Just as they protested loudly Monday, students on Tuesday were emphatic in expressing their relief and satisfaction that those allegedly responsible for leading the racist chant got their due.

Ross Johnson, a senior studying drama and broadcast media, called the video embarrassing and unacceptable as he worried that it may be seen as a reflection on him in the future.

“It sucks that I’m graduating in May. I feel I am probably going to have to explain this when I move,” he said. “For people who don’t know the University of Oklahoma, aren’t part of the student body, it’s a black eye that doesn’t really deserve to be there. It’s a small group of people who were acting foolishly.”

Another student, junior Jake Hewitt, applauded the university and the fraternity’s national president for their handling of the incident.

“I think it’s really good that the president is showing strong support for the students in the community here and saying, ‘This is not OK. It’s not going to be acceptable on our campus.’ It’s a good strong move, and I hope if they find out more, they do more,” he said.

Shortly after the expulsions were announced, senior Omar Humphrey, an African-American modern dance student, told CNN, “I think it’s rightfully so that they were (kicked out). … That needed to happen. It wasn’t fair; it wasn’t right. I am, as most of the student body — not just the African-American students — we’re all disheartened by the situation. It’s just really hard to think that this is still going on today, and I’m still deeply saddened.”

He is still a “proud student,” he said, and he understands that the fraternity members in question represent “just some microbial infestation that’s on campus. It’s on every campus, it’s on every campus. It’s unfortunate that we have to be seen in that light.”

Asked what he could say to the fraternity members if given the chance, Humphrey replied, “I pray for their humanity. I hope that they find maturity. … I wish them well. ”

Nothing new

Unheard co-director Chelsea Davis said a racist mentality is not new to campus and is not confined to one fraternity.

“Unfortunately, it took them getting caught on video camera for this to happen, but this is definitely not something that is brand-new. It’s not something that’s only seen within this one organization,” she said.

Davis said the only acceptable response is to expel — not suspend, as that would send the wrong message — all the students involved.

“I was hurt that my fellow peers that I walk to class with every day, people that I see every day, could say such hateful things about me and my culture, about my friends, about my brothers and my sisters,” she said.

Black U. of Oklahoma SAE alumnus: ‘They are not my brothers’

For four years, William Bruce James II called the University of Oklahoma’s Sigma Alpha Epsilon his home. He walked its halls, bunked in its rooms, held office as one of its leaders, considered his fraternity brothers his dearest friends. He was proud to be SAE.

Now that pride is tainted.

A video shot this Saturday of party-bound shows SAE members clapping, pumping their fists and chanting in unison: “There will never be a ni**** SAE,” they sing. “You can hang him from a tree, but he can never sign with me.”

These young men are talking about him, James said. That’s because not only is he an SAE alumni, he is also African-American.

How do you make sense of the fact that those behind these hateful words wore the same pledge pins, occupied the same house, preached “the same motto that I hold dear to my heart” as James did?

“I couldn’t look at myself,” he said, “still claiming to be that.”

Since the video surfaced Sunday, students have been expelled and SAE’s Oklahoma chapter has shut down. The episode has left James disgusted, horrified that members of a fraternity that once welcomed him could espouse such hatred.

“I don’t know what happened to the culture of my home,” he told CNN on Tuesday.

“That is not my home. That is not SAE. They are not my brothers.”

Students ‘don’t know what it means to be (in) any fraternity’

While the Oklahoma frat has never had a lot of black members, that didn’t matter to James when he joined in 2001. SAE was where he forged lifelong friendships, where he and others grew into men.

“We were becoming something while I was there,” he said. “Something that I don’t think these kids grasped. … I don’t think they know what it means to be a brother of any fraternity, let alone mine.”

James doesn’t believe the racist chant was an isolated incident, not given how many on the bus seemingly sang it so easily and enthusiastically. Nor does he think that only those leading the chant deserve punishment. Just as easily as one person could have started it, someone else could have called for it to stop.

That’s what James thinks that his own fraternity brothers would’ve done, whether he was around or not.

They understood the importance of stepping up to say: “This isn’t right, this isn’t what I stand for, this isn’t gentlemanly, this isn’t even human,” he said. “That’s what being an SAE is.”

“My pledge class … wouldn’t let that happen,” he said. “And I don’t know what’s happened to (the Oklahoma SAE chapter) since then.”

Former frat brothers remain ‘family’

Many members of that pledge class, as well others who he knew from SAE, have reached out to James in recent days by text, phone, email and Facebook. He knows he is not alone, including in his support for disbanding Oklahoma’s SAE chapter.

“That entire house has accepted the culture that accepts that song, those words, that imagery,” James said. “So the whole house has to be punished.”

His former frat brothers are different from him, of course. Their skin color wouldn’t have stopped them from getting into SAE if the twisted chant reflected reality.

Still, James feels their pain is real and sincere. Those on this weekend’s video may not be his brothers, but those he knew from 2001 to 2005 still are.

“I don’t think that they can fully encompass the pain and betrayal that I feel,” James said of his white friends from the fraternity. “But by holding me so close in their life, they know that their brother was hurt.”

“So it’s a thing they’re feeling in their family. I’m family to them.”

Fraternity’s house mom sings n-word

The fallout at Sigma Alpha Epsilon continues.

Just days after a video surfaced of frat members singing a racist song, another video is making the rounds. This one appears to show the fraternity’s house mom laughing and saying the n-word.

The Oklahoma Daily, the university’s student newspaper, posted a Vine dating from 2013 that shows an older woman talking over a rap song, saying “ni****” seven times in quick succession.

The woman, who is seated with an Oklahoma shirt behind her, laughs before repeating the racial epithet. The sound of “All Gold Everything” from Trinidad James — a black, Atlanta-based rapper — can be heard in the background.

The student newspaper reports that the woman appears to be Beauton Gilbow, who was the SAE chapter’s house mom. She responded in a statement Tuesday.

“I have been made aware that a video of me that is circulating on social media and in the news. I am heartbroken by the portrayal that I am in some way racist. I have friends of all race and do not tolerate any form of discrimination in my life.

“I was singing along to a Trinidad song, but completely understand how the video must appear in the context of the events that occurred this week,” said Gilbow.

Before the Vine came out but after the fraternity chapter was suspended, the woman known as “Momma B” told CNN affiliate KOCO-TV that she was blindsided by the overall controversy.

“I feel like the rug has been pulled out from under me,” Gilbow said. “This has been my life for 15 years. And it’s tough.”