Am I in an Abusive Relationship?
Do you or your partner show the following behaviors?

- Humiliate, embarrass, ridicule or put you down in public or private?

- Attempt to separate you from your family and friends?

- Blame you for all problems in the relationship?

- Control all finances in the household?

- Deny you access to money or insist that you account for every penny you spend?

- Prevent you from going to temple if an argument or fight has occurred?

- Always check up on you to see where you go and what you do?

- Deny or punish your children even though there are problems in the relationship?

- Insist on having more children even though there are problems in the relationship?

- Threaten to hurt your children, family members or pets?

- Take away your car or house keys?

- Use excessive alcohol and/or drugs?

- Use his bad childhood as an excuse for his violence?

- Slap, shove, punch or throw objects at you?

- Force you to have sex or perform unwanted sexual acts?

Do you frequently:

- Change your behavior to deal with your partner's moods and temper?

- Always worry about what kind of mood your partner will be in?

- Feel like you are walking on egg shells?

- Feel like you are going crazy?

- Fear the consequences of being yourself?

- Feel isolated or alone and have no one to talk to?

These are warning signs for an abusive and unhealthy relationship.